LOVING FROM BEHIND

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My First Anal Encounter

My first invitation to offer anal pleasure to a woman came during college when I was dating white girls. I was dating this one girl in particular when I first experienced anal. During a night of intimacy that’s when it happened. I just got done giving her oral stimulation (I once was so eager I got hiccups while eating her out but that’s another story). The anal sex topic was indeed her idea and yes I was curious but in my mind I was thinking “will my dick smell like shit “, “will it fit”, “will it hurt her – shit will it hurt me”? I thought of the expansion of the sphincter muscle and the tight feeling as if it she were a virgin and the control and then you go for it. She takes my manhood which could break a brick at this point. My Dick was so hard it was throbbing and it was hot she gave me an extra wet blow job, to fully lubricate my shaft. While turning over to get in doggy style, she just guided my Dick into her ass – working the head first back n forth. She said “never want to force or jam it in till she gapes”. In case you don’t know “To Gape” means the anus has sort of opened; through anal four-play to the size of the penis she is working with. Once she achieved “Gape” I really started to get into it – hot – tight – and her moans of pleasure and pain were a big turn on. She he let me have my way with her ass literally for 45minutes! After she came she gave me the “serious ok” – she twisted her self to look me I the eye – and said in the sexist voice I’d heard to date- “CUMM IN MY AZZ, DO IT – DO IT CUMM I N MY AZZ”!! I don’t know why but that shit is like a license to tear some shit up – I put one hand on her shoulder, the other at the fold of her hips, and I rose up on my toes. When I got her and myself in position it was on. I tried to pay her back for slavery, civil rights, Malcom X, Martin, and Kennedy. I was so deep inside her. The excitement of anal sex was so powerful that when I came it was so much it ran out her azz as she lay there shaking, sweaty, and moaning with pleasure from sexual pain.

Is it her pleasure or your pleasure?

Once you have done it you are going to want to try it again. Please use a condom! Don’t think anything crazy like “I don’t need a condom because she can’t get pregnant from her azz”. I have heard guys say this. Even though she can’t get pregnant you are still at risk of disease so be safe, use a freaking condom (MAGNUM ECSTACY). Now when the time comes (I prefer to let the lady decide) as a man you can’t be walking around just talking about anal sex because you may put yourself in a closet. If during sex she is curious or wants to try she will let you know. If it is her thing she will be into it. She will know the positions that she likes and from what angle. More than likely she has tried it herself with her dildo or rubber silicone dick. So trust me if she into it your good just supply the dick and let her get it off she may take it from the back or side or ride you true cowboy style.

“If she is letting you hit the taboo zone to please you – take that into account – don’t just tear the azz up, be gentle – let her find pleasure in pleasing you – after all if she is doing it to please you as a man – you might want to ensure you can hit it again – so let her adjust, it may be new for her”.

Warming up to the booty hole

OK I am going to break this down to you guys and gals – the anus is designed to be EXIT ONLY – so the veins, tissue, capillaries are all compressed to work with the sphincter muscle to move things out- now it’s the same concentration of tissue that is the pleasure of pain when the penis enters her anus. One young lady describes anal sex as; “it is like a euphoric high without the marijuana“.

Men you cannot just go in like you can with a vagina. The keyword is "GAPE". You have to get her and her anus to relax and take form. Whether you use your tongue, finger with lubricate or sex toy with lubricate, you must give anal four-play before inserting – look for the Gape as the anus loosens it will slow to close as you continue to give four play . Once that happens substitute you Penis just using the head at first – the ease it in to her comfort level – never force it – let her body moisten itself around your Penis. You as the man will feel it loosen she will arch her back or spread her legs for you to go in…

Black Girls and Anal SEX

Men please know that 6 out of 10 black women “ARE NOT ON IT” but it’s the “FOUR” that will surprise you. You might think the hot in the club girl half dressed, very flirtatious and all over you will be the one- “Not”. It’s the quiet girl who dresses nice but not like a freak, works a regular job that will have Pandora’s Box of whips and chains and will be all into to anal sex. A couple of be black women have gotten me like that. I was with this one black woman and we were having extremely good sex. Let’s just say the mild mannered 9 to 5 day jobber had a wild side. After about two to three months of great sex she took it to a new level. This is how it went down during a session: we were in a feverish lovemaking session currently in the missionary position. I went to adjust my knee to go in deeper but in the process slipped out. I heard her say “I got you baby” and instead of putting my dick back into her pussy she put my dick head up her azz and simply said “get it but be gentle at first”. My mind was like “What the fuck I am in her azz. Damn it was her idea”!! I happily obliged her. Man what a good session that was and she was all into it. Once she gaped and got loose she was raised her hips to get me deeper inside her ass grinding and all. Then she turned over for me to hit it from the back, she loved it when I played with her pussy and clitoris and the same time until she had another orgasm. This was this first time I felt a ass hole get “cummy” while cumming from her vagina too.

The Freak in HER!!!!

Sometimes you will get a real trooper that is willing to try new things or maybe school you on a thing or two. Most women already know what they like especially if they own a dildo or vibrator. One thing that is a big turn on for me is a woman who like the taste of there own pussy. She will taste herself by either licking her fingers after she touches herself or by perform a deep blow job after you have been inside her. But if she grab your dick and sucks it after you have been in her azz well that’s a different type of hot………

Chocolate Girth……

Does Size Really Matter????

My First Time

DOES SIZE MATTER?????

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Stop asking me if your big enough! I hate when a man asks me is he big enough or if I enjoyed it after fucking. For one some of you don't really want the "REAL" answer. Two its a turn off and three if you couldn't tell by my reaction then its your fault. I understand that many men are sensitive about their performance. The truth is that size does matter to some but not all. A man can be eight inches and still be terrible in bed because he doesn't know what he is doing (trust me I know). The time that it takes to instruct him is tedious as hell(unless you love him)...smh. Before you run and jump to defend your manhood let me explain.

The main goal that we both share during sex is satisfaction. That includes having an orgasm or you just "busin a nut". Trying to shove 8inches into a vagina that is only 6.5inches is not pleasurable! The goal is not for you to cram every inch of you into her to prove that you are a man (take that,take that,take that). We already know that you are a man because you have a penis! All women really want you to do is make the experience pleasurable and memorable (in a good way). I can't speak for all but I can certainly say that I love a "Perfect Fit".

What is a "Perfect Fit" you may ask? A "Perfect Fit" is when you find a partner who is large enough to your liking. For example: Lets say (ladies) that your about 7.5 inches deep and your partner is 8inches then that would be a "Perfect Fit". He is just large enough even though he is a half inch larger he has just enough to try and cram in to where its not painful. Some may like maybe a half inch to and inch and a half. The pain is just enough to where its pleasurable. Men If your too big for her and try to cram every inch into her every time you can bend her cervix. Yes, men you can bend the cervix. I know that many ladies love an extremely large penis and ruff sex but be warned that this can eventually bend the cervix causing it to become difficult to become pregnant. Now don't get it twisted you can still get pregnant but it can be difficult.

So fellas to give some insight I asked some ladies if size really mattered:

CATHERINE-

Does size really matter? In my opinion, if you truly are in love with the guy then no. Your emotions take over and more of your heart is there than anything. If its just someone you want to have intercourse with then of course it does. He's probably a big talker and has nothing to show for it. Why have sex with someone if you cant feel a damn thing?! Depending on the female when a man has a small wanker then it gives the female a totally different perspective of the guy

ANGEL-

Hey lady! Let's see....size; where shall I begin? :-) (jus thinking about various sizes makes me blush...LOL)

Size: Yes, it matters! Now, you can have a HUGE dick but there are 2 downfalls that can happen with that. A) its so big that it's more uncomfortable than it is pleasurable. Yes its desirable for the sake of experience & curiousity but you know what curiousity does; kills the cat! (not in a good way) Its almost hard for him to hit your spot cuz he's so big that he's taking up ALL the spots in the coochie! lol Then you have B) a guy has a big dick but doesn't know how to use it! (such a waste of a good tool! *kills me*) He has a nice piece but his rhythm is off....he just can't satisfy you even though he's "holdin"!

Now, on the flipside of having a big dick, you have the "average to relatively small" range. While this isn't the most sought after size, I've found that I've received more pleasure from an "average" sized dick. I find that a man can hit my spot better. He can hit it at an angle better if he's able to maneuver the dick a little bit. (with a HUGE dick, he's just in there with no room to spare!) Having said all this, average sized works for me; not "small" though. Small dicks are not desirable at all! lol (none need apply!!! LOL) That just feels like somebody fingering you; so high school! :-)

In conclusion, yes...size definitely matters! I'll always give the "big boy" a try but I prefer an average size dick so I can truly enjoy the sex! Ow!!! :-)

" GENTLEMEN" ARE THEY WORTH IT?

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Men have you ever been dating someone and asked yourself "Are they really worth it"? Many of you get caught up in the moment where we want to show someone how we feel or think of them but many people are not worth the time or the effort. So how do you determine if the person that you are seeing is a "worth the time"?

Looks first personality second! That's just the way that it is no matter what someone tells you but once we meet that person we forget to have real conversations with them. Example: if your planning the first date what suggestions are being made for the date. If you suggest Morton's and she wants Applebees then there is a problem and we are not just talking income here. Fellas if you suggest Morton's and she is dead set on Applebees because she has never been or never heard of it then you might want to keep it moving. She is not open to try new things and/or experiences.

Now of course on the first date we want to look our best so men that means "NO WHITE T-SHIRTS". If we are going to a nice restaurant a polo shirt and some nice khakis would be nice. Please do not sag so much that we have to look at your underwear. Depending on who is driving for this date if the music playing is anything Gucci or if its Plies "Becky" then you might want to get that emergency phone call jumping off so you can keep it moving. Fellas if your bring your date roses and she looks at you funny just turn around and leave. I was reading twitter and I saw that one of the people that I follow had bought his date some roses and she told him that he was moving to fast. Ladies I want you to remember that most men have no idea what the different color roses mean. So if he brings you red roses on the first date that does not mean that he is in love with you already or that he is ready to hit the sheets immediately. He is being called a rare species know as a "Gentleman".

Yes they still exist! Gentlemen walk against the curb of the street and open doors and are not always trying to cop a feel every time they see you. When you go out with a "Gentleman" the date does not always require a sexual favor. "Gentlemen" do not play songs like "Fuck My Baby Mama" by Eazy-E right before sex (true story). "Gentlemen" take you on trips out of the state just because he wants to do something nice with you (ever just leave the state to go to a movie). "Gentlemen" buy you "Just Thinking About You" cards just because. "Gentlemen will not let you spend more on them than what you would spend on yourself. "Gentlemen" demands that others in his presence respect you no matter what the situation is. A "Gentleman" simply just enjoys your company.

Ladies please take note because they are a rare species and you can easily kill them for the next lady simply by being a "Bitch"!

I dedicate this one to all the gentlemen that I have met and that have been destroyed by that Bitch!

THE ORGASMIC KISS

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How can you have an orgasm from just a kiss? Well to start off many woman may not be able to experience this but for those that have we can tell you that it can be one of the most amazing orgasms that you can every have. The first time that I had ever experienced and orgasm by kiss it took four hours of kissing. We did not start off intentionally looking to have an orgasm by kissing it just sorta happened. I know many can not imagine kissing for four hours but if you are kissing someone that can really kiss and you are sexually attracted to them it can happen. Kissing is one of the most erotic, sensual, and passionate activities that one can do with their partner. It is one of the best ways to tell how a person really feels about you without words. Let's be real it is the closest that we can get to someone next to sex.

I do want you to understand that there is a proper method to kissing. Shoving your tongue down your partners throat is not always a turn on. Now before you start the kiss we need to start at the beginning of the day before you meet up with your partner. whcih involves exfoliating the lips. Yes, you can exfoliate the lips! Haven't you watched The Tyra Show? You can start by taking some vaseline and putting some on your lips. Leave the vaseline on for five minutes and then take a warm face cloth and in a gentle circular motion rub the towel around the lips removing the dead skin. Once you are done place a light coat of Vaseline back on the lips. Soft lips make for the best kisses.

Now when starting the kiss please remember that no Carmex should be on the lips. Medicated kisses are not sexy! Ladies if you have it use the flavored lip gloss cause it makes the kiss more interesteing when your partner is trying to suck it off :-) .

How do you have an orgasm by kissing well first the mood needs to be right and you need to mentally in tune with your body. You have to mentally place your mind in a state where you are aware of all the sensations that bring you pleasure while you are kissing your partner. Start off by picking a position. You can be either sitting on your partners lap or you can be laying down (now fellas you may not have an orgasm from doing this but the turn on is making her have one). Whatever position that you are in take your hand and place it on the back of your partners neck. The palm of your hand should be at the base of the head and neck. Place the thumb right behind the ear. You can use your fingers to play with their hair. Now tilt the head to the desired position. Gently pull your partner towards you. Gently rub your lips against theirs and take notice of the softness of your partners lips. Use the tip of your tongue to lick your partners lips and when the moment is right insert the tip of your tongue inside your partners mouth and then pull back. You want to take your tongue and circle the tip of your partners tongue with yours and pull back. Try licking the top, underside, and the sides of their tongue and pull back. You want to continue doing this with rhythmic movements. You can change up the kiss by imitating each kiss that your partner does. If your partner circles the tip of your tongue, pulls back and licks your lips then you mimic the same. If you suck on your partners tongue the pressure should be light. If you suck too hard it can ruin the kiss.

If you are sitting on


French Kissing 101: It may be hard to believe but not many people know how to french kiss. Control your tongue when kissing your partner. As stated before you do not have to shove your entire tongue in their mouth. The french kiss is an erotic exploration of your partner's mouth and tongue with your tongue. If you shove too much tongue into your partners mouth you have less control over how you move your tongue. Start with just sticking the tip of the tongue in your partner's mouth and then pull back. Use your tongue to lick the sides and underside

JACK RABBIT SEX

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He moaned "I am about to cum" and I could not have been happier because it was about to be over. I couldn't believe I just had "Jack Rabbit" sex like Carrie from "Sex In The City". For those of you that do not know Jack Rabbit sex is fast paced, highly aggressive sex also known as Bang, Bang, Bang. Many men believe that women love to have sex this way when in reality it can be painful and unsatisfying. Jack Rabbit sex is like masturbating with a woman. You are fucking her as if you are fucking your hand. You don't have to beat it up for the sex to be enjoyable.
As I stated before Jack Rabbit sex is not enjoyable especially if that is the constant motion during intimacy. You should be taking the time to enjoy the way she feels. Men need to take the time to learn the art of thrusting. The various speeds, depths and angle of the thrusts can make sex very enjoyable. So how should you begin?
Start by taking the tip of your penis and rubbing it around the opening of her vagina. This helps to build arousal which in turn increases her vaginal secretions or in laymens terms causes her to be really wet ( don't forget the kissing on the lips and the breasts are still necessary). As you do this you will notice how she opens and closes as if she was trying to pull you in. Don't give it all to her yet. Let her lips kiss the tip of your penis. Now tease her by sticking just the tip of the penis inside her. Remember the more you tease her the more aroused she will become. Now when your ready give her all of you but slowly. You want her to feel every inch of you as you enter her with a deep thrust. Now once inside her you don't have to immediately have to start beating it it (thrusting intensely). The whole point is to enjoy the experience need I remind you!
Now after you have entered her (assuming that you are on top) grab her by the back of the head (grab some of her hair but not to tight) and look her in the eye and thrust deeply into her. You want her to know that you are in control and that right now this is your pussy and that you are going to make her feel as if she is being made love to. Pull out and do nine shallow thrusts and then one deep thrust then withdraw, pause, reenter and perform eight shallow strokes and one deep. Continue the countdown. eventually you will get and the rhythm and you will not need to count anymore. You can also vary the thrusting techniques by also trying the "Corkscrew" maneuver. The "Corkscrew involves the man moving slightly right and the moving slightly to the left while thrusting. You are moving your penis inside her vagina in a circular motion by doing this. This method is best when done in the missionary position or while doing it Doggy style. The "Corkscrew can cause a deep orgasm for many women. You can speed up the motion as the intensity of the sex increases.
Ladies don't feel left out because if he is not thrusting inside of you the way that you want him to you can take control of the penis. Ladies if you are on top you have full control of the depth and the intensity of how his penis enters you. To start off don't just jump on the penis as if it was one of those stick on the chair dildos that you bought from the store. Sit on the penis slowly. If he grabs you by the waist or if he grabs you by the crease of your ass and thigh to take control take his hands and place them above his head. While moving his hands above his head kiss him passionately on the lips. You want him to know that you are in control. You can also adjust his thrusts by the way you angle your body. Shift your pelvis in a different direction.
So men we need for you to take time when you are in us to enjoy the feeling. Enjoy the warmth and wetness of her while you are inside of her. There is nothing like the sensation of you being inside of her. Sometimes she may not want to cum or have an orgasm. She may just want the experience of the feeling of having you inside of her.

(Remember if you are going to have sex please use a condom! Use the links to the right to order your free Trojan Ecstasy condoms while supplies last. If you are going to go raw be honest with your partner about the last time you have been tested for any STDs especially HIV)

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