I AM THE OTHER WOMAN

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I am the other woman. What separates me from you is that I know my position. Granted you may be "Mainline" but I get the same passes and privileges as you.

I am the other woman cause I fuck better than you. I don't even have to be like Superhead, hell he doesn't even ask that of me. You wanna make love and I just want him to fuck me.

I am the other woman cause I make it easy for him to talk to me. You critique his goals and things he considers accomplishments. I am right there to tell him that I am proud of him and then offer my assistance with his next goal.

I am the other woman because I am not always in his pockets. On Payday you stand there with your hand out stretched so that you can go shopping. You complain when he gives you a limited amount. The amount is limited cause he has already went shopping for me.

I am the other woman and I drive not only his car but yours as well when he has it. Those some of those business trips that he is one are really getaways for the two of us. He takes you to Outback and takes me to Mortons. We have even met before too. Trying to remember when? Don't bother because you will never figure it out.

I am the other woman because I make sure he doesn't get caught. I never call him he calls me. Don't bother searching his phone cause you will never find my number. I am listed under a males name or a business or I could be an alternate number for a friend. Try calling the numbers in the phone but beware of what you say cause you could damage a real business relationship looking for me.

I am the other woman cause you will never catch us out because I don't have the same interests as you. If he slips up and mentions my name he can simply explain it away because you want so desperately to believe that you are the only one.

I am the other woman because you can't compete with me. You trick on him and in turn he tricks on me. What he doesn't give to you he gives to me. I already know that it will not last. It ends when I am done with the thrill.

Sincerely,
The Other Woman

(This is not a real letter just a creative work)
(Please ladies don't read more into this than what it is)

HEARTLESS

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ORAL LOVEMAKING

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Its 2009 and I can’t believe that men still don’t perform oral. That’s almost as bad as the females that I meet that never had an orgasm. Deep down inside if a man has not tried it he truly wants to. Its just that he doesn’t know how. I know that their are some women that do not like to be eaten out. This however can be an enjoyable experience if it is done properly. Their have been many conformist to this idea once they have had a partner that knew what they were doing. So you already know that I am going to tell you how to get it done. First you need to start off by finding what she ate for the day. I know that you may be asking why this is important? Remember the saying “You are what you eat” well this holds true when performing oral. The bodily fluids that you secret can contain flavors of things that you ate earlier in the day. That means if your daily diet consists of a lot of alcohol, garlic, onions, asparagus and you smoke it can cause you to leave a bad taste in his/her mouth. I would suggest eating plenty of fruit and drinking lots of water each day to sweeten your juices. Try eating lots of pineapple, papaya, cranberry, melons, mangos, apples, grapes. These fruits are high in natural sugars and offset the is bitter taste. That does clarify “she tastes like a peach” doesn’t it.

I would start with stimulation but I will safely assume that you already have that down packed. Now before you start I need for you to remember that this area is sensitive and the most sensitive part in this area is the clitoris. Pressure is everything when performing oral. She may or may not like intense pressure on her clit. Listen to her moans pay attention to her body movements. If she is moving away it could be because the pressure is to intense so change the pressure. Ladies I also need for you to tell your partner how much pressure that you like. You need to tell them either “more pressure” or “light pressure” so that they know what is stimulating you.

Start by spreading her legs and placing the palms of your hands against her thighs and use your thumbs to spread her outer lips (ladies you should either be clean shaven which means no stubble or you need to be cut close enough to where your partner is not going to gag on a hair). Lick and kiss the area surrounding the clitoris. If you need to expose the clitoris with your thumbs lightly lift the clitoral hood to expose the clitoris. With your tongue apply light pressure to the tip of the clitoris. Kiss and suck the sides of the clitoris. Gently kiss the clitoris. As she becomes more aroused insert your middle and index finger into the vagina. Move the fingers in a “come here” motion. Take the tip of the tongue and flick it rapidly back and forth along the top of the clitoris. Then move your tongue up and down the shaft of the clitoris. As she is nearing orgasm insert your tongue in her vagina and move your tongue in a circular motion. As she is cumming move your tongue back and forth. Feel her vaginal muscles try and pull your tongue deep inside her. Ladies if you need to grab the back of your partners head but don’t try to bury their face in the vagina so that they can not breathe. Your partner still needs to breathe. Use one hand the grab the head and use the other to grip the sheets. Depending on the strength of the orgasm you should be able to grab the back of your partner’s head and slightly raise your hips and ride your partners tongue.

Depending on the woman she may actually cum or as some men may say “bust-a-nut”. She will secrete a creamy looking substance that looks like semen from the vagina. She can even be a squirter as well. Yes, she can bust in your eye to. I want you to know that this all natural. You don’t have to perform oral on her until she cums. Oral can be performed right before intercourse. Its can be most arousing to bring her to the brink of orgasm and then to stop oral to begin intercourse. The same technics described above can also be used during the 69 position as well. The importance of the female orgasm may be of importance to men because (depending on the woman’s orgasm) during the female orgasm her jaws and throat may become more relaxed so that she can deep throat.

I hope that these technics have helped you to become more aware of the female and male orgasm. I know that the men may be wondering where their instructional is for the females on how to perform oral on a man but right now I think that Karrin Steffans lastest book (which includes pictures) is instructional enough. Besides that technic coming from me is classified!

LOVE HURTS

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My face was still swollen from being hit in the face with a brick. I don't even know how I ended up here. Everything was so perfect between us in the beginning. I would have never done anything to hurt Aaron. One year later here I stand explaining what brought us here.

Officer Nichols: I this may be hard for you right now but can you explain when the physical abuse began?

My once sexy smile is now destroyed after having Aaron knock my tooth out after I came home late. I probably should have called but I didn't think that I was that late. During the argument Aaron threw the remote at me an knocked out my tooth. Later Aaron apologized. I know it wasn't intentional. You know how arguments get heated.

Officer Nichols: Why didn't you leave ?

I love Aaron and our child. I know I should have walked away after the Aaron tried to choke me but I know I can do things that make people wanna get at me. I want to be there for our child. Family is important to me. I believe in two parent households and our child should not suffer because of a few misunderstandings between us.

Officer Nichols: Do you remember the events of earlier today?

I don't know how I ended up here. I remember talking to my co-worker Shelley and then feeling this pain against the left side of my head. I looked around and saw Aaron standing in front of me yelling. I couldn't really hear what was being said because the sound was muffled. I touched my head and when I brought my fingers around to the front of my face i saw the blood. Before I could say anything to Aaron pounce on me and started punching me. The next thing that I remember is my hands around Aaron's throat and then everything went black.

Officer Nichols: Your co-worker ran and called security when your girlfriend hit you in the face with the brick. I want you to know that violence is never good in relationship no matter what end it comes from.

Why Do Men Stay In Abusive And Violent Relationships?

Protecting Their Children. Abused men are afraid to leave their children alone with an abusive woman. They are afraid that if they leave they will never be allowed to see their children again. The man is afraid the woman will tell his children he is a bad person or that he doesn't love them.

Assuming Blame (Guilt Prone). Many abused men believe it is their fault or feel they deserve the treatment they receive. They assume blame for events that other people would not. They feel responsible and have an unrealistic belief that they can and should do something that will make things better.

Dependency (or Fear of Independence). The abused man is mentally, emotionally or financially dependent on the abusive woman. The idea of leaving the relationship creates significant feelings of depression or anxiety. They are "addicted" to each other.
Who Can Help If You Are In An Abusive or Violent Relationship?

Help for men who are victims of domestic abuse and violence is not as prevalent as it is for women. There are virtually no shelters, programs or advocacy groups for men. Most abused men will have to rely on private counseling services. Community resources for breaking the cycle of violence are scarce and not well developed.

National Domestic Abuse Hotline
1 (800) 799 - SAFE

(oregoncounseling)